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Friday, June 03, 2005

Love is unconditional when...

Love is unconditional when........
.... you cry with them when he / she is in pain..not because that will affect your life but because you feel that pain the other person feels..
.... when he/she talks with you about the problems at hand, you do not think how that will affect you, but what can you do to rescue him/her
.... when he/she comes to you for help, you do not blame them but listen..just listen and make him/her feel better
.... when you take upon responsibilities and make promises that you do not have a clue as to how to fulfill,but you do so just to make him/her feel better...
and may be you would fulfill them too....somehow...
.... when you do not expect anything in return of the favours but just that him/her should be happy forever....
.... when you do not have an ounce of jealousy at his/her happiness...and continue to wish them well....

That was my thoughts on that....it is nice to know that most of us are capable of unconditional love...not only love of the romantic kind...also the love and care we have for our family and friends........

and how does unconditional love spring?.....
it springs because he/she would have done something to affect our lives in a very positive way..and may be this unconditional love is just a form of gratitude..........

3 comments:

Baejaar said...

Couldnt help smiling, seeing the title of this post. Only now the debate is settling down over expectations and conditions in love and friendship.

Gratitude isnt unconditional love. May be exceptions are there but in general gratitudes are never expressed as love let alone unconditional love.

monu said...

@baejaar
well, may be...but then i can never forget a good deed done to me, and thanks to the gratitude, i will like that person no matter what..that made me write it
and thanx for your comments!

Known Stranger said...

unconditional love. oh i am dead on this subject.,heieheie - just cant comprehend this. ask me how the pleasure and pain of love feels - i can relate and speak as been just seeing my friends gals and guy in the pain and pleasure of it for past 15 years and can pen well with out me really experienceing but this unconditional love. my good ness.. alla vidduda dsammi complex issue of a simple thing