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Friday, August 12, 2005

Decision - Updated!


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Calvin and hobbes is not just yet another cartoon, there is more to it
that what meets the eye....I could relate to this one..as i am particularly
indecisive...

Time and tide, nor do people wait for us to decide, so we better make up
our mind... and do it fast too....
The above cartoon is driving home the point that if we delay our decisions
due to indecisiveness, then some one else or destiny may come in .........

Decisions are dependant on two things if you ask me:

1. Trust on one's own sense of judgement
2. Proirity

Sometimes, we feel that this is the right thing to do, some might call it listening
to one's own heart, and we go ahead and do it.
Else we have a priority, like if my mom is sick and i have booked tickets for a movie,there is certainly no doubt that i will not go for the movie.Why? Because I have Prioritised here.

So ,when then do we become indecisive, when our heart doesn't just tell us what to do..or in my case, i really doubt my sense of judgement....so am never able to decide based on what my heart says..them Mr.Conscience comes into play making the situation more complex... Life can become complex when we begin to think.....

Second thing is prioritising..on larger things, i can prioritise..but on smaller things,i just cant....Let me demonstrate, I go to the cafeteria, i take a minute to decide if it is going to be coffee or milk......not an earth shattering decision, you know, but a time consuming one. And when the gravity of the situation is greater, it gets worser......hmmm....

So what is the point , you ask...i just wanted to rant about how indecisive i can be

12 comments:

Kaps said...

i can relate to this....there is some bit of indecisiveness in each of us.

monu said...

@kaps
as long as it stays as "some", i guess it should be fine...but whne we become too indecisive as to be unable to make a decision, trouble starts.........
:)

Ganesh said...

yes monu you are right

monu said...

@GANESH
:)U 2 indecisive?

vasanthi said...

how long did u take to decide on this topic for blog?? on a serious note it is better to take sometime in deciding than doing things in a hurry and regretting later.coffee tea yeah whats wrong in taking 2 seconds to decide-that way you will drink what you feel like drinking at that time rather than ordering in a hurry and wasting

chennaiite said...

sudandhira dina vazhthukkal (Happy I-Day!!!)....Check out the video on my blog...

Jinguchakka said...

I too like C&H.
And I too am as indecisive as they come.
I admire people who have a flair for taking decisions and generally take charge of a situation.

johnny boy said...

Join the 'indecisive' club.. Welcome aboard :-) I think a LOT before taking decisions... In fact sometimes i spend nights over decisions. But i really dont mind, cos once i take a decision, I back myself with all that i've got. Even if it turns out to be a wrong one, i'll back myself. Cos a decision once made, is made :-)

ioiio said...

I take a decision a lil too early.. Thats a problem too. I need to think a lot more.. Ur instincts dont work always

IBH said...

it is not just u!i guess we share this problem with hordes of other people too :)

monu said...

@vasanthi
nothing wrong i suppose.....but taking too long...but then how long is too long....
i dont even want to think...
:)

@chennaiite
thanks and same to u!

@jinguchakka
me too..me too

@johhny boy
the good thing is that u r confident abt ur decisions..i am indecisive if i am confident abt my decisions or not....
:))

@ioiio
i agree with u...

@ibh
thats nice to know..
:)

Anoop Sundaram said...

mm now do i comment here or no.... well i have been pondering abt it for some time now and whew i have decided to comment ;-))
PS: on a serious note, nice post ;-)