tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post112201124740140300..comments2023-10-15T16:59:25.950+05:30Comments on from my heart......: The girl baby - take 2monuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16778024859373563303noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122264975944108952005-07-25T09:46:00.000+05:302005-07-25T09:46:00.000+05:30@afglad atleast someone agrees with me that i am n...@af<BR/>glad atleast someone agrees with me that i am not exaggerating!<BR/>:)<BR/><BR/>@johnny boy<BR/>yep, u r true...this is a worst case scenario...it is not a norm..that is all the more because women are learning to be independent and i guess, earning respect too....monuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16778024859373563303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122229025171233082005-07-24T23:47:00.000+05:302005-07-24T23:47:00.000+05:30Monu, i agree with ur view, that dowry still exist...Monu, i agree with ur view, that dowry still exists, fine.. But i guess your post is a kind of a 'worst case' situation. Is it so bad these days? What u wrote, could have been a frequent occurence probably 10 yrs before. But now i guess, things are much better.. Its not so cruel/harsh as u have put it. Some stray cases, yes, i agree.. But not on a whole.johnny boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03585688760010704737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122050610226590022005-07-22T22:13:00.000+05:302005-07-22T22:13:00.000+05:30awesome Monu..It happens and is still happening in...awesome Monu..<BR/>It happens and is still happening in our society..AFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05124695412928009059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122035857817361292005-07-22T18:07:00.000+05:302005-07-22T18:07:00.000+05:30@vatsanwhat would they say of the parents ?rome wa...@vatsan<BR/><BR/>what would they say of the parents ?<BR/>rome was not built in a day..<BR/>and it is not just the money, it is the attitude..of the people who have boys...<BR/><BR/>do you know that people beleive that you have to have a son do devasam for you to go to heaven or atleast daughter's son....<BR/>people beleive that...how can i change that social beleif...???<BR/>think of it.....monuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16778024859373563303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122031136989484262005-07-22T16:48:00.000+05:302005-07-22T16:48:00.000+05:30from when did right action become a burden? infact...from when did right action become a burden? <BR/>infact if u seach hard and find a guy who doesnt expect dowry, itll be a huge burden off ur parents shoulders.ada-paavi!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07591425576772654784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122031063963172222005-07-22T16:47:00.000+05:302005-07-22T16:47:00.000+05:30as someone who can c it, its uptou to change it, n...as someone who can c it, its uptou to change it, nee change panna than onnai parthu nalu per follow pannuvangal, ull have to show that ppl shudnt take beathing bending down and have to stand up. ne oru educated personna vandu sollerangal nan our practical person, and therefore i will accept norms and wont change things na, societyilla inda practise will continue. <BR/><BR/>u are communicating, yes no doubt, but i am saying rather than being a hypocrite(accepting norms norms under practicality) be someone who will do ur bit to change society (dont accept norms, in simple words, don give dowry,it wudnt be too hard 2 actually find a guy who doesnt want dowry, just requires konjam porumai and konjam fine searching!)ada-paavi!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07591425576772654784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122026148042642162005-07-22T15:25:00.000+05:302005-07-22T15:25:00.000+05:30@vatsanif i cant change it, cant i voice it?i am c...@vatsan<BR/><BR/>if i cant change it, cant i voice it?<BR/>i am conveying this to some people out there right.....<BR/><BR/>i cant oppose society, as i am practical..that is something i know for sure....<BR/><BR/>does that mean i cant voice my view?......tell the truth....?<BR/><BR/>this is just an outlet for me to lament.....<BR/><BR/>i cant trouble my parents in the name of bringing social change.....?<BR/>think about it....monuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16778024859373563303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122024558873562682005-07-22T14:59:00.000+05:302005-07-22T14:59:00.000+05:30no kasappu, it happens illai no sollelai, annal u ...no kasappu, it happens illai no sollelai, annal u still havent answered my question, wat will u do the day u get married? succumb to pressure? aporam ur r accepting things and not willin to do anything bout em, then dont express voices of dissent(this is a voice of dissent)ada-paavi!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07591425576772654784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122024106496469332005-07-22T14:51:00.000+05:302005-07-22T14:51:00.000+05:30@vastanunamiya sonna enpa kasakkudhu?dont you see ...@vastan<BR/>unamiya sonna enpa kasakkudhu?<BR/>dont you see this happening in middle class families??<BR/><BR/>nopes....i am not a feminist..this is just my comment on reality...that is y the last line says that they will succumb to social pressure.....monuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16778024859373563303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122022843033497572005-07-22T14:30:00.000+05:302005-07-22T14:30:00.000+05:30from u rheart only blood flows out, ne romba mega ...from u rheart only blood flows out, ne romba mega serial pakkara, nalathu illai, <BR/>agree wit kaps its becomin womens lib. <BR/>seri ippo ne pesuave, on kalyanam pothu enna pannauvae nu pakkalam, give into pressure frm parents (who mite give dowry) or refuse to give (as a part of ur wlib stand)<BR/><BR/>do u get inpired by ppl like A roy, and B karat?ada-paavi!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07591425576772654784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122018413758730782005-07-22T13:16:00.000+05:302005-07-22T13:16:00.000+05:30@kapsit is still from my heart:)@kaps<BR/><BR/>it is still from my heart<BR/>:)monuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16778024859373563303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122016542546757652005-07-22T12:45:00.000+05:302005-07-22T12:45:00.000+05:30your blog is turning out to be a women's Liberatio...your blog is turning out to be a women's Liberation blog. look's like a good time to rename your blog.Kapshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18313844922683303787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122012010306744862005-07-22T11:30:00.000+05:302005-07-22T11:30:00.000+05:30@amolhappens buddy!happens!if feoticide can happen...@amol<BR/><BR/>happens buddy!<BR/>happens!<BR/>if feoticide can happen???<BR/>cant this happen?monuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16778024859373563303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12869381.post-1122011519864154432005-07-22T11:21:00.000+05:302005-07-22T11:21:00.000+05:30outrageous ..Have you gone back in time ??outrageous ..Have you gone back in time ??Amolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06476734686179829633noreply@blogger.com